Why is it so hard for me to hold a relationship ? ?

I'ma sweet nice respectable smart girl ! I'm cute look at picture of me ! Beauty and brains ! I don't hoe around or nun of that , just that the guys I meet want me to do things I don't wanna do , not gonna do ! Except a few , but they have never asked me out or anything ! But any advice on what I should do ! I want somebody who will treat me right with respect and like me for who I am ! Like me for my personality instead of what's in my pants ! Someone who'll listen to my problems and help me with them ! Someone who'll be there if I need something ! Is that to much to ask for ?