Working ways to help stay celibate?

I have decided to stay celibate and not be with anyone for about a decade or so. To get sensitve to god and worry about how im going to make money as an adult. And be happy. Figure out my blessigns and destiny. "real" ministers, sisters, nuns, everyday christians, or anyone (even if your arent christian) who has lived a while without masturbating or premarital sex, plz share some of your secrets with me. Thank you